Relationship
Just leave me alone!
Often, you want to be left alone so you can relax. You spend your days in meetings, calling business associates and prospective clients, and closing deals that provide your family with a very comfortable lifestyle.
You go into work early, work late into the evenings, and work most weekends. After the long hours at work, you want to be left alone during what little free time you have.
You are tired of hearing the nagging questions – “Where are you? Who are you with now? What time are you coming home? And how come you don’t spend any time with me?”
Why is it so hard for your spouse to comprehend that you have worked extremely hard over the years to build and sustain your current lifestyle and to ensure that the two of you have financial security as you get older? In your free time, you want to be left alone.
I’m turned ON, yet they’re turned OFF.
When you first met, the two of you were having sex almost every day. Now that time has passed. It’s like you need to schedule an appointment to have your needs met.
You feel as if you are doing everything you can to try to turn them on. When you have sex, it’s like your partner is a robot, just going through the motions. Then when they want sex, they expect you to be turned on and please them at the drop of a dime.
Although you are mad, you give in because your body is craving the attention. If you withhold sex, you are afraid that there’s no telling how long it will be before you have sex again or if your partner will find someone else to meet their needs.
They avoid talking to you and won’t tell you if you did something wrong. You often wonder if your partner still finds you attractive.
I’m in a never-ending nightmare.
Day after day, you wake up to the same routine of going to work, coming home, making sure you have a clean home, and meeting your spouse’s needs.
It’s bad enough that you have a job you don’t like and feel overworked, underpaid, and unappreciated; it’s the same mess when you go home.
After working all day, you come home only to work some more doing things around the house, and, yes, fulfilling your spouse’s needs in the bedroom when they want it.
If you wanted to continue being overworked, underpaid, and unappreciated, you would’ve just stayed at work.
You are in a never-ending nightmare.
Do you understand the words coming out of my mouth?
Your partner asked you this morning to do something. You said, “I will take care of it later this evening.”
Later that evening, you came home from work, changed, and sat down for a moment to relax. Next thing you know, your partner is fussing at you for not taking care of what your spouse asked you to do this morning.
They’re mad for some unknown reason. Now you are angry because your partner is fussing and nagging at you for no reason whatsoever.
Were you speaking another language this morning? You said, “I will take care of it later this evening.” You did not give a specific time. You just got in from work and want to relax for one second.
Here’s a solution.
Whether we’re communicating with our significant other, family, co-worker, or friends, everyone doesn’t speak and receive information the same way we do.
Wouldn’t it be nice to know why statements such as “I will take care of it later this evening” mean something different to you and the person with whom you’re talking?
Learn why you’re more sexually active than your significant other. Also, learn why the more you try to please your partner, the more they pull away, wedging enough distance between you and your loved one to build a football stadium.
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